Feminism means getting to make your own damn choices, thank you.
Choose to have hairy legs and arms and vagina, or landscape, or wax.
Choose to wear comfy clothing, revealing clothing, little to no clothing.
Choose to have a baby, 4 babies, no babies.
Choose to get married in a church, or in Las Vegas, or in Cancun, or not get married. Choose to marry whomever you damn well choose that chooses you back, thank you.
Choose to access every building/website/opportunity or not.
Choose to flirt, or not. Choose to have a relationship, or not. Choose to have sex, or not.
Choose to work, or not. Choose to work in medicine, administration, academics, or sex.
Choose where to live, and with whom, and for how long.
Choose to travel by plane, train or automobile. Or high speed rail, ahem.
Choose how to treat your issues that need treatment. Or not.
Feminism for me also means believing in every human to make these choices for themselves.
*I would love comments here. What’s missing from this list? What choices have you made in your life that were not really choices at all? What choices can you now make that your mother’s generation could not?